Aging is
not a
Transaction.

When complexity arrives, families need more than a lawyer. They need a plan for the next decade of decisions.

Licensed in NJ, NY & PA · Super Lawyers · VA Accredited

Robert J. Murray, Founder of The Murray Firm
A note from the founder

"I started this firm because I watched my own family struggle through care decisions with no one to call. Good elder law looks like the friend you wish you had when the first hospital call came."

Robert J. Murray

Founder · 2011

Meet the team
01

A parent's diagnosis changes everything.

Long-term care planning before a crisis becomes a financial and emotional cliff.

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02

Ready to put your own affairs in order.

Estate planning that actually fits the life you've built — not a generic template.

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03

Medicaid is the only path forward.

Navigating the rules that don't make sense to secure the care they deserve.

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04

A loved one passed. The paperwork begins.

Estate and trust administration with a single, steady point of contact.

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Our Signature Program

Not a transaction.
A relationship.

How it works →

Most law firms hand you a binder of documents and a final invoice. We don't. The families we work best with don't need a transaction — they need a relationship, because aging is not a single event. It is a decade of small decisions made under pressure.

The Guidance Program is our answer. An ongoing membership — single point of contact, annual review, on-call access for the calls that come at 4pm on a Friday, and a document refresh cadence that keeps your plan honest. Closer to a family office for the care journey than a traditional retainer.

What clients tell us
"Robert and his team handled my mother's Medicaid application after we'd been told for two years it couldn't be done. It was done in four months."

Margaret W.

Bernardsville, NJ

Where we are

Five offices.
One firm.

Corporate Office
Bernardsville
83 Morristown Road
Bernardsville, NJ 07924
908.204.3477
Bergen County
Hackensack
Court Plaza North, 25 Main Street
Hackensack, NJ 07601
201.880.7070
New York
Pearl River
1 Blue Hill Plaza
Pearl River, NY 10965
845.735.4400
Pennsylvania
Milford
220 Broad Street
Milford, PA 18337
570.296.4000
Morris County
Rockaway
100 Enterprise Drive
Rockaway, NJ 07866
973.586.4800

Let's figure out the next step together.

A 15-minute call is free. There's no obligation, and there's no sales pitch.

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